What is Catholic Engaged Encounter?

Catholic Engaged Encounter is a community-based Christian marriage preparation ministry based on Catholic teachings and values. It emphasizes the relationship of the couples in terms of their sacramental commitment.

What happens on a weekend?

During a weekend, an atmosphere is created that enables each couple to concentrate exclusively on one another while free of the pressures and interruptions of daily life. This time will give each couple an opportunity to discuss honestly with each other, in a face-to-face manner, their strengths and weaknesses, desires, ambitions, and goals.

The design of the program is to have two married couples present concepts focused on their relationship with their spouse and with God. Following the presentations the engaged couples write their reflections from questions provided, and then dialogue privately together, always from the viewpoint of their own relationship. Couples are given the opportunity to question, examine and deepen their relationship with each other. They are challenged to explore many aspects of their relationship in a much deeper, more honest way than they may have before.

Does the couple have to be Catholic?

Although the weekend is designed for couples planning to be married in the Catholic Church, it is open to all couples of any faith. It has been found to be both beneficial and supporting of couples from differing faith backgrounds.

How soon before the wedding should we attend our weekend?

We recommend the earlier the better. As soon as you are engaged, or even considering engagement. By attending early you can discover areas of growth necessary in your relationship, determine if engagement and marriage is right for you at this time (before becoming too invested in the wedding preparations), and avoid the last minute hassles of attending a weekend while trying to do everything else your wedding day entails.

Why should we attend?

Through the presentations and personal sharing, the weekend experience offers each couple the insights, tools and confidence to enrich their relationship and
strengthen their love for one another and with God. It is recognized as one of the most significant experiences during their engagement period.

Do we have to stay all weekend?

Yes...the weekend begins on Saturday morning and ends late Sunday afternoon. Please arrange your schedule accordingly and select a weekend in which you can make this full commitment.

What should we pack and wear?

Separate sleeping facilities are provided for men and women on the weekend. Pack separately and bring casual clothing that will be comfortable.

When and Where?

Catholic Engaged Encounter weekends are held at various retreat centers throughout Michigan. Directions will be sent out when your payment is received.
The weekend begins on Saturday morning at 8:00 am and ends on Sunday at approximately 5:00 pm.

What is the cost of a weekend?

The cost of the weekend is $235 per couple which includes your meals, supplies and overnight stay. A free will donation is asked at the end of the weekend.

How and when do we register?

Because of capacity restrictions at the retreat centers, space is limited on each weekend. You should register as soon as you decide to make a weekend. You may submit your registration form online, but your reservation will not be confirmed until we receive your $235 check or money order by mail.